How to Make a Man Happy

Men are just as hard to figure out as women, but once you know what makes them happy, they're yours for eternity. As a woman, you're probably already aware that what makes you happy does not make your man feel the same way. You're more interested in shopping, going out with the girls, dressing up, gossiping, and cooking. He's more into getting outside, getting dirty, showing off in front of his friends, and eating when it's time for dinner. As you may well know, there are even more differences than that.

When a couple gets divorced, the most common reason is due to "irreconcilable differences". Men and women simply do not take the time out to find out about each other. You have to dig deep if you want to keep your partner happy. Fortunately, the whole process of keeping a man happy is not nearly as difficult as some may think.

Given below are a few of the most important things to do in order to keep your man happy:

1. Don't Be a Nag - Men hate nagging. Did you know that most men will leave a relationship if a woman nags too much? It may not seem like a big deal, but nagging is one of the top reasons why men want to stay out late at night and avoid coming home. They dread the nagging that they will hear when they walk through the door. Instead, be happy, even if you have to fake it.

2. Win Him Over, Then Talk - Okay, let's assume that you and your husband/boyfriend are having some issues and are on the verge of breaking up. Instead of bringing up your problems every single time you're around him, pretend they do not exist. Be cheerful, happy, and sweet to him. The key is to get him interested in you, and then talk about any issues that you're having, if they're even still there.

3. Be Surprising – Wear a plus size corset! Do crazy things for him that you wouldn't normally do. Men will always fantasize about the "perfect woman" no matter who he is with. How would you feel if you could be that perfect dream woman for him? The love that you have would soar and your relationship would be absolutely full of bliss. Kiss him in public, give him back massages, take him out to the game, invite his friends over for surprise gatherings, etc. Just be spontaneous!

4. Admire Him - How far did you think you were going to get without paying your man any attention? Sure, you need attention as well, but he needs it too. Sometimes, it takes a woman providing her husband/boyfriend with attention in order for her to get what she wants. Stare at him while he works on his truck, tell him he is sexy, dress up in provocative outfits just for him, be flirty with him, and cook his favorite meals. He needs to know that you are into him in order to feel admired.

5. Have Your Own Life - It may seem contradictory to the last tip, but having your own life keeps a man interested in you and also intrigued, and it also makes it easier to keep him happy. When his attention is on you, he'll notice the things you do for him a lot more. Men love for a woman to depend on them, but only so much. We are in the 21^st century, so it's at least nice if you have your own life outside of him. Get a part-time job, go out with your friends, and do not always be right there for him. You want him to love you and be happy to have you, but you do not want to become his doormat.

You'll get a lot more attention from a man if you're happy and fun to be around. Women who are spontaneous and aren't afraid to go out on a limb and wear sexy lingerie, let their hair down every now and then, and give their men compliments are the one's have the happiest relationships.