Five Things Every Man Wants in a Woman

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By MaryElena

Women can sometimes have a difficult time figuring out what their men want. Like women, men also expect their partner to treat them right and know the things they need. But if you do not, don't feel bad. There are certain things in women that men find repulsive, like repeat swearing, a bad attitude, and bad hygiene. However, there are also things that all men love.

Given below are five things every man wants in a woman:

1. Respect - Respect works both ways, that is a given. If you can't respect your man, then he won't respect you and it won't be long until he finds someone else. Listen to him when he talks, do things for him, and give him compliments. As long as you make an effort to please him, he won't ever let you go.

2. Attractiveness - This is a dreaded reality but, looks do matter. You may occasionally find someone who could care less about your looks, but it won't happen often. There has got to be an element of physical attraction present in order for males to sense that "fire". Men are visual creatures (much more visual than women) and if you're not feeding their visual needs, someone else will be. It's not like you've got to walk around in plus size corsets all day, but at least try to maintain a clean appearance and dress seductively every now and then.

3. Confidence - If you're into yourself, your man will also be into you. Women who are less confident may attract the wrong types of men, like those who prey on vulnerability. That is something you can do without. Simply walk, talk, and act with confidence at all times and you will find that your man always wants to be around you and no one else.

4. Unpredictability - You can't be boring if you want your relationship to work out. Don't be afraid to do new things and take risks. Just when you feel that you are falling into a comfortable routine in your relationship, it's time to mix things up, and quick. A man might say he is happy, but if you're not interesting to him, he'll slowly begin to slip away.

5. Femininity - There are plenty of women who behave like tomboys that are attractive to men, but in the long run, it's best to act like a lady. Femininity is very attractive to a man, just as masculinity is attractive to a woman. No man wants his woman to spit, cuss, and dress inappropriately. Make sure that you smell good, are well-mannered, and most of all, make him feel like a man.

The most important things to keep in mind when dating someone you really care about is to dress nicely, behave like a lady, be respectful, and adventurous. When it's all said and done, not all men want to date plus size bodystocking models, but a woman who will make them feel loved and nurtured. They need someone they can talk to and lean on in times of hardship and someone they can really love and admire.

Comments

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Daddy Paul 24 months ago

I agree with you 100% on what men find disgusting. Beyond Respect which most men want men see women in differing ways. Some men don't like confident women. Some men like really ugly women. Some guys do like fat women and yes some men like sweaty stinky women.

That said most really good men like the woman you describe above.

obama 21 months ago

ugly women is my choice.

Mwiche 21 months ago

Nice.i liked this:)

nancy 2 months ago

Same goes for the guys no swearing big bellied beer guzzling

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